Consensuality
Wednesday, February 28, 2007
There’s something about spring time that inspires me to write darker and sexier and kinkier. I’m having a blast writing about a slightly scary Dragon Master and one of “his,” Lizzy.
Slightly scary tends to turn me on, but only if I know I’m really safe.
I know I’m preaching to the choir, here, but sometimes I worry that someone will misinterpret my stories and think they advocate a certain social order.
They don’t.
I believe in Safe, Sane and Consensual and RACK. I believe that a man is sexy when he’s dominant, but then there are plenty that believe a woman is sexy when she’s dominant. There are plenty of women that love her guy to be HOH (me included!), but plenty that don’t.
I’m just saying, I don’t believe in shoulds. I don’t believe that a woman should want this lifestyle, or be involved in this lifestyle because she’s a woman. I don’t believe a man should be HOH, or should spank.
I only believe that I think it’s fun, erotic, and so very, very intimate and special.
2 Comments:
Hey, Nattie!
Okay, I had to look up the acronym RACK LOL...
I agree with you on everything in this post, though. I think that "intimate" is really the key word for D & I. Without DD, I can't see us as ever finding much intimacy. It always happens on the highest levels with DD interactions.
Huggs,
Reesa
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Reesa Roberts, at
RACK was a new one for me, too! I stumbled across it when I was looking up a link for SSC, LOL. (All these silly acronyms, you'd think we were in the military!)
Yeah, intimacy is the best part. I love playing that edge of vulnerability and trust. How do vanillas ever create that emotional space?
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