Fictional Spankings?
Tuesday, September 02, 2008
I haven't known what to talk about here. My Mister Sir is off working for months at a time. One of those things you just have to do, sometimes.
Without him here, spanking me, I feel like I'm hardly living the lifestyle.
I remember once reading that in spanking fiction, spankings need to be "more than real life" in order to get the same effect. For me, when Mister Sir is home and spanking me, my fictional spankings are soooooo much shorter and gentler.
When he is gone and the memory that spankings actually hurt fades (as it always does, lol), my fictional spankings become longer and harder.
When I read others' spanking fiction, it can never be too harsh. The more I can feel like I'm getting a spanking vicariously, the better. And the longer a scene, the more chance I have of imagining myself into a vicarious experience.
I miss real spankings. He'll be home soon.
What about you? How do you like your fictional spankings? The same as real life? Different?
Okay. Let's Play Stereotype.
Monday, September 01, 2008
I used to love Social Studies, and wish they had social studies for grown-ups. They would stereotype, (Germans are punctual, Italian men love their mothers, etc.) but you could take away a bit more understanding than a strictly factual history of a country.
I know, I know, it was only a few blog posts ago when I practically went off my rocker because someone dared suggest that submissives have low self-esteem.
So let's pretend this is a Social Studies class and we're studying submissives.
What I find funny is that so many submissives I know are pretty anti-establishment. Quite a few have "authority issues" in their "public" life. Some of them reject any religion that hints of patriarchy, or even any religion that has a male God. (A significant number are precisely the opposite, though.)
And as we reject the "normal" life and the "establishment," we're very independent.
But then when it comes to the people we respect and/or care about? We can go internally nuts worrying about their opinion of us. We're almost too sensitive, too influencable.
Maybe that brings us around to why we reject so much authority. If we didn't reject it, we'd be a mess trying to please everyone.
For me, life is easier with only my Mister Sir to please. He looks out for me, I look out for him. It works, I guess, balances out my people-pleasing tendencies.
I really don't know, just musing on a lazy afternoon, LOL. Usually with stereotypes there are more exceptions than rule. Any thoughts? What do you think? Do you see any trends? Any different trends?
